A Christian At His Calling – by Cotton Mather (followed by commentary by Craig Smith)

A Christian At His Calling – by Cotton Mather (followed by commentary by Craig Smith)

Posted in Craigs Keystone articles

There are two callings to be minded by all Christians. Every Christian has a general calling, which is to serve the Lord Jesus Christ. God has called us to believe on His Son, repent of our sin, and bear our testimony to His truths and ways in the world. Every man in the world should herein conform to the calls of that God, who has called us with this holy calling. But then every Christian has also a personal calling, or a certain particular employment, by which his usefulness in his neighbourhood is distinguished. God has made man a sociable creature. We expect benefits from humane society. It is but equal that humane society should receive benefits from us. We are beneficial to humane society by the worlds of that special occupation in which we are to be employed, according to the order of God.

A Christian at his two callings is a man in a boat rowing for heaven, the house which our heavenly Father has intended for us. If he mind but one of his callings, be it which it will, he pulls the oar, but on one side of the boat, and will make but a poor dispatch to the shore of eternal blessedness. It is not only necessary that a Christian should follow his general calling, it is of necessity that he follow his personal calling, too.

A Christian should be able to give a good account not only what is his occupation, but also what he is in his occupation. It is not enough that a Christian have an occupation; he must mind his occupation as it becomes a Christian. That a Christian may be able to give a good account of his occupation, there are certain virtues of Christianity with which he is to follow it.

(And although the language employed in this article may sound as if it is aimed exclusively at the male heads of households, the language of the introduction is clearly inclusive of all believers. Dads, this means not only you, but Mums at your calling as home educators and children in your calling as students.)

The Virtue of Industry

A Christian should follow his occupation with industry. It seems a man slothful in business is not a man serving the Lord. By slothfulness men bring upon themselves poverty, misery, and all sorts of confusion. On the other side, a man by diligence in his business, what may he not come to? A diligent man is very rarely an indigent man. Would a man rise by his business? I say, then let him rise to his business. I tell you, with diligence a man may do marvellous things. Young man, work hard while you are young: You’ll reap the effects of it when you are old. Yes, how can you ordinarily enjoy any rest at night if you have not been well at work in the day? Let your business engross the most of your time.

Come, come for shame, away to your business: Lay out your strength in it, put forth your skill for it; avoid all impertinent avocations. Laudable recreations may be used now and then, but I beseech you, let those recreations be used for sauce, not for meat. If recreations go to encroach too far upon your business, give to them that put off.

The Virtue of Discretion

A Christian should follow his occupation with discretion. It is a dishonour to the profession of religion if there be no discretion expressed in the affairs of its professors. Every man should with a praiseworthy emulation strive to get the praise once given to Joseph: “There is none so discreet as thou art.”

More particularly, one memorandum for you is this: Let every man have the discretion to be well instructed in, and well acquainted with, all the mysteries of his occupation. Be master of your trade; count it a disgrace to be no workman. And as discretion would bid you to have an insight in your business, thus it also bids you have a foresight in it. Let every man therefore in his business observe the most proper time for everything, for there is a time to every purpose. The wise man says, “There is a time to buy and a time to sell,” and a wise man will do what he can to discern the time.

The same discretion must show a man how to proportion his business unto his ability. It is an indiscreet thing for a man to overcharge himself in his business. For a man to distract his mind, to confound his health, to launch out beyond his estate in his business is a culpable indiscretion. Be therewith well advised by the rules of discretion with another caveat: And that is, suit your expenses unto your revenues. Take this advice, O Christians: It is sin, I say it is ordinarily a sin — and it will at length be a shame — for a man to spend more than he gets, or make his layings out more than his comings in.

The Virtue of Honesty

A Christian should follow his occupation with honesty. Truly, justice must be exactly followed in that calling by which we go to get our living. A Christian in all his business ought so altogether justly to do everything that he should be able to say with the apostle Paul, “Men and brethren, I have lived in all good conscience (Acts 23:1). A Christian should imitate his Lord, of Whom it is said, “He is righteous in all His ways.” In your business you have dealings with other persons, but certain vein of honesty, unspotted and resolved honesty, should run through all your dealings. You aim at the getting of silver and gold by your occupation, but you should always act by the Golden Rule.

Shall I be more particular? I say, then, let a principle of honesty in your occupation cause you to speak the truth, and nothing but the truth, on all occasions. Don’t conceal from any customer that which you ought in equity or charity to acquaint him withal, and more especially if your customers do rely upon your sincerity. Don’t exceed the truth, either in commendations or disparagements of commodities. Don’t assert anything that is not truth about the kind or the use or the price of them. In every bargain that you make in your business, let a principle of honesty keep you from every fraudulent or oppressive action.

Wherefore, take no advantage either from the necessity or from the unskillfulness of those with whom you are concerned: It is uncharitable, it is disingenuous, it is inhumane for one man to prey upon the weakness of another. And therefore also, never, never make any bargain with such as you suspect have no just propriety in what you go to purchase from them. If you fear that stolen goods are offered you, never touch those burning coals nor incur that brand.

Are there also any manufactures that you are to work up for others? Let them all be well wrought. Give every manufacture its due perfection. Cheat no man with anything that shall be unserviceable to him. Do nothing slightly, do nothing basely, do nothing deceitfully. But I have yet another thing to say: Let a principle of honesty cause you carefully to pay the debts which in your business must fall upon you. Run into debt as little as you may, but being in debt, be as ready to get out of it as ever you were to get into it. Finally, I have yet one more to say: Let a principle of honesty cause you to keep your word in all your business. You sometimes give your word; let that word then be as good as your bond.

The Virtue of Contentment

A Christian should follow his occupation with contentment. A Christian should not be too ready to fall out with his calling. It is the singular favour of God unto a man that he can attend his occupation with contentment and satisfaction. That one man has a spirit formed and fitted for one occupation, and another man for another, this is from the operation of that God, Who forms the spirit of man within him. Count not your business to be your burden or your blemish. Let not a proud heart make you ashamed of that business wherein you may be a blessing. For my part, I can’t see an honest man hard at work in the say of his occupation, be it never so mean (and though perhaps driving a wheelbarrow), but I find my heart sensibly touched with respect for such a man.

It is possible you may see others in some greater and richer business, and you may think that you might be yourselves greater and richer if you were in some other business. Yes, but has not the God of heaven cast you into that business which now takes you up? Is your business here clogged with any difficulties and inconveniences? Contentment under those difficulties is no little part of your homage to that God, Who has placed you where you are. Fall not into any fretful discontent, but with patience make the conclusion of the prophet: “Truly, this is a grief, and I must bear it! I must bear it!”

And hence, another thing to be pressed upon you is this: Let all persons take heed of too suddenly leaving that business wherein God has fixed them. When a man is become unfit for his business, or his business becomes unfit for him, unquestionably he may leave it. And a man may be otherwise invited sometimes justly to change his business; I make no question of it. But many a man, merely from covetousness and from discontent, throws up his business. And how many, do you think, repent of their doing so?

The Virtue of Piety

A Christian should with piety follow his occupation. O, let every Christian walk with God when he works at his calling; and in his occupation with an eye to God, act as under the eye of God. It is a wondrous thing that I am going to say: A poor man that minds the business of his calling and weaves a thread of holiness into all his business may arrive to some of the highest glories in heaven at the last.

(Cotton Mather, 1663-1728, American colonial historian and theologian, was born in Boston. Intellectually gifted, he entered Harvard University at age 11 and graduated in 1678. He became an assistant to his father, Increase Mather, at Boston’s Second Church, and from 1685 to 1728 held a joint or sole pastorate at the same church. Widely celebrated as a scholar, he was one of the founders of Yale College, a member of the Royal Society of London, a leader of the conservative element among the Puritans, and author of approximately 450 books on a variety of subjects. He gave generously of his time and money to the poor, established a school for educating slaves, supported the building of churches in poor communities, and came to the aid of needy ministers.)

CHomeS Comment:  Some today would argue that the Rev. Mather’s ideas, written before the industrial revolution, hold little relevance for today. Steeped as he was in the Scripture and the traditions of a God-fearing society, we might do well to examine why such an argument might, or might not, be accurate.

The entire concept of a calling from God is questioned by many. They would say we end up in this job or that job because of the circumstances of the times. My very first summer job seemed like that. I was delivering ice to the drinking cans of the workers in the vineyards and orchards of central California, and shifting bins of fruit and field toilets. Most of my peers were picking the fruit in the 42°C heat. Anticipating the questions I would be asked, the friend of the family who got me this plum job told me to tell others I just happened to be at the right place at the right time. But even if that had been the case, and knowing that the friend and the boss whom he greased on my behalf and me too at the time were all total unbelievers doesn’t change the fact that Jesus is Lord. The Lord Jesus got me that job using the family friend’s relation with the boss. The Lord is the One who orchestrates the affairs of men, and not we ourselves. That’s what “Lord” means. That comes with the territory when One is God. If He didn’t have such all-comprehensive power, He would not be the God of the Scriptures.

It is quite liberating knowing that the job I have is exactly where the Lord wants me to be…..unless, as Cotton Mather also says, there is a definite inappropriateness about the job, an inappropriateness which is not borne of discontent, laziness or selfish ambition.

But more than just being where God wants me to be at the time, He has a whole swag of reasons why He wants me there at that time. As Cotton Mather says, to be content in the job, even when it is “clogged with any difficulties and inconveniences” is part of the homage I am to pay to my God. James tells us to count it all joy when we meet various trials, such as a swine of a boss or lousy working conditions, for the benefits that follow (James 1:2-4). And the Lord also assures us that all things work for good to His people (Romans 8:28).  And our work, whatever we do, being from God can be fulfilled by us as an act of worship, bringing glory to God (I Corinthians 10:31).  The Scriptures tell us to work this way (Colossians 3:23-24) and promise great reward as well (I Corinthians 15:58). These principles are very easy to see when we consider our calling to home educate our children. It makes me all the more determined to work for the maintenance of our ability to fulfil our duty to home educate with a minimum of state interference.

Now this old fashioned idea of industry being a virtue really seems past its use-by date these days. Some will argue that most jobs are dead-end affairs, with no hope of promotion; that the “system” no longer rewards industry, but only cunning; that the jobs aren’t there anyway; that there are gender and racial and cultural barriers; and that some jobs (such as child rearing, homemaking, and volunteer societies), being unpaid, will never be rewarded, no matter how hard you work. These viewpoints have varying amounts of truth to them, reflecting the fact that we live in a fallen world and in a nation that has turned its back on the God of the Bible. But all these viewpoints also completely ignore the God of the Scriptures…and He is not bound by the iniquities of our present society. He can ensure that the hard-working and diligent will be rewarded….. perhaps by being in the right place at the right time. We cannot know how He will accomplish His ends, but as long as we trust in Him and not ourselves, our efforts can be part of the solution to the problems, rather than just remaining part of the problems (Proverbs 3:5-10). Remember, He is still Lord, and totally in control.

If more of us could get a handle on what Rev Mather and the Bible say about contentment, our lives would be a lot less hectic and much more fulfilling. I think most of us home educators have figured out that we probably cannot both educate our children at home and maintain a show-home degree of orderliness and tidiness at the same time. I mean, sometimes the beds don’t even get made. How come with all the labour-saving devices, we are all working harder than ever before? Is it possibly because of discontent? Do we want to possess more, to be involved in more things, to be seen to be involved in more things, to not miss out on the latest, to “support” the good work someone else has organised?

Maybe these things are good things, totally justifiable.  But maybe there are times when the good can prevent us from accomplishing the best. Maybe there are too many good things that come to us in a state of urgency or on a once-in-a-blue-moon basis, so the pressure of the moment takes us away…..again and again……from spending time, the long periods of uninterrupted time, required to effectively impart those formal academic lessons or those informal character lessons. If home education was just a matter of imparting information, books, tapes and computers would all suffice. But we are talking about imparting our lives to our children’s lives, by personal lessons, by personal precepts, by personal examples. And that all takes time. And contented people tend to have more time, for they have figured out what is important and are less likely to be distracted from the top priorities in life (the best) by all those good things that constantly come their way.

Do you know what their top secret is? I mean apart from having figured out their priorities in life? Do you know that top executives pay hundreds of dollars to learn this secret and how to properly use it? Are you ready for this? The secret is learning how to say “no”.

Now, even unbelievers can take advantage of this concept. Anyone can see that if Bob was perfectly satisfied and contented with jam sandwiches for lunch everyday, he would have a much higher degree of contentment in life than would Jim who would settle for jam sandwiches, but was only contented with Italian dry salami and Swiss cheese on San Francisco sour dough bread. The trick there is to sublimate your real desires for more pragmatic ones and convince yourself that you now really want this lesser item.

But Christians have such an advantage! Psalm 37:4 says, “Take delight in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.” I found this so liberating! What does the Lord get? Well, anything He wants … He is the one who decides all things that come into existence. If we take delight in the Lord, that is, delight in Him and all the things He wants, then He promises to give us those things we want, the desires of our hearts. But since they will be the same things as what He wants, it will simply come about as we do His will on this earth. Nothing could be farther from the picture of God as some kind of Santa Clause collecting things on these individual wish lists. And nothing could be more fulfilling and satisfying and contributing to continual contentment than having the desires of the heart fulfilled by simply going about my everyday life, a life committed to doing His will. Now His Holy Spirit dwelling within will make this a delight, rather than a chore. It will enhance the unity we Christians seem to have given away since we will all be taking delight in the same things rather than doing our own things. And part of this delight in the things of the Lord will surely be a humble admiration for the vast diversity evident in God’s people…..especially as expressed in each individual’s calling from God.

So although we all delight in the same thing, it does not mean we all do the same thing. We each have our own calling from God, a calling which may be modified as the years go by. And we accept that it is a calling, something I am supposed to do, because it is a calling from God, my Master. The option to take it up or leave it be isn’t really there. He has called me to do this specific job. I had better do it because He called me to it. And if I’m smart I’ll do it because I know He has only the best (which doesn’t mean easiest or most fun or exciting) lined up for me. I follow my own calling, embracing it as my own, and I rejoice with my brothers and sisters in their callings and encourage them therein.

No, not everyone is equal or will be equal. No, we will not see perfect or total justice on this sin-cursed earth. But, as the Scriptures instruct us, we should wait patiently, eagerly, for Him Who judges justly and will finally put everything right. Only let us be found by Him faithfully doing His will. For when we have done all we were commanded to do, we will say, “We are unprofitable servants. We have done what was our duty to do” (Luke 17:10).

From Keystone Magazine
March 1998 , Vol. IV No.1
P O Box 9064
Palmerston North
Phone: (06) 357-4399
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Baptism

Baptism

Posted in Theologically Speaking

I once asked some good Christian friends how they, as rational, intelligent people, could go along with this crazy idea some people have of baptising or sprinkling infants. They laughed in such a way as to indicate that I wasn’t the first person to ask such a question. They didn’t answer but simply gave me a slim book to read, William the Baptist, by James M. Chaney who wrote it back in 1877!

It was a great little human interest story, a bit of a romance really, describing the doctrinal worries of a Baptist gentleman as he courted his Presbyterian sweetheart. I couldn’t put it down.

When I did, I cannot say I understood the doctrine of infant baptism. But I could see that it wasn’t the obvious open-and-shut case I had thought it was. A fair bit of further study followed, and by borrowing some comparative diagrams from some authors and working them over myself, I came up with the table  (ie. set of comparisons) below, which I trust is reasonably accurate as I tried to soften the dogmatism in the originals. This only barely begins to explain the difference between the two main positions within the Protestant camp. What seemed more important or significant was that this doctrine, like most others, cannot be considered in isolation, but is inextricably entwined within the wider range of doctrines, the whole of which makes up one’s theology.

In other words, we must be slow to speak ill of another’s theology unless we are familiar with the bigger picture. If we as home schooling parents disparage another denomination, we have already transgressed and set a bad example as well. I know how easy it is to do….I have had to make two public apologies for just such offences within the last five days. Ripping into others’ ideas on baptism, for example, mainly because they don’t match your own, breeds the ugly bigotry we Christians are always being accused of displaying. Note the two areas of total agreement below: #1 and #12. Symbolism is not an exact field of study but very subjective. And none of us can possibly know the state of a person’s heart. Therefore we must learn to show patience, long-suffering, mercy and compassion to others, just as our Lord has shown to us. Even though it may be obvious to us that the other guy doesn’t have it all together,  remember  …neither do we.

Believer’s Baptism (BB) — Infant Baptism (IB)

1. BB is symbolic only and causes no change in the one being baptised.

IB is symbolic only and causes no change in the one being baptised.

2. BB signifies a believer has turned to the Lord.

IB signifies a child has been set apart to the Lord.

3. BB is done on a profession of faith by the one being baptised.

IB is done on a declaration by the parents of the one being baptised that they will rear that one in the Christian faith.

4. BB demonstrates a sharp discontinuity between the OT and the NT: believer’s baptism is unlike anything which had gone before in the same way that being born again as a Christian is unlike anything which had gone before.

IB demonstrates a close continuity from the OT into the NT: bringing infants of believing families into the covenant community of God’s people is continued, although the accompanying rite of circumcision is changed to the bloodless rite of water baptism.

5. BB portrays the death, burial and resurrection of Christ.

IB portrays a setting apart, being sanctified, made holy.

6. BB – the believer is identifying self with the death, burial and resurrection of Christ, promising to live hereafter for Him.

IB – the parents acknowledge that God has total claim to the child’s life but also claim God’s promise to bless the children of faithful believers.

7. BB – water symbolises cleansing from sin.

IB – water symbolises cleansing from sin via the Holy Spirit coming down upon (pouring or sprinkling).

8. BB indicates that God works with individuals.

IB indicates that God works with individuals through the context of families.

9BB is a badge of membership in the Body of Christ. 

IB is a mark of ownership by God.

10BB confirms that the believer has accepted Christ as Lord and Saviour.

IB confirms that God has accepted the child into His covenant family by virtue of confessing parents.

11. BB centres upon man’s believing.

IB centres upon God’s fulfilling His promise.

12. BB – sometimes the one baptised appears to be unregenerate after all.

IB – sometimes the one baptised appears to be unregenerate after all.

From Keystone Magazine
March 1998 , Vol. IV No.1
P O Box 9064
Palmerston North
Phone: (06) 357-4399
Fax: (06) 357-4389
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How can you stick it? All day everyday with the kids at home?? Aaaarrrggghhh!!

How can you stick it? All day everyday with the kids at home?? Aaaarrrggghhh!!

Posted in Tough Questions

How can you stick it? All day everyday with the kids at home?? Aaaarrrggghhh!!

We want the thrill of participating in our children’s learning process. All parents remember how much pleasure there is in watching for, coaching, developing and announcing each child’s first smile, first step, first word, first go on a bike, etc., etc. We get that thrill over and over as they learn to read, to write, to master maths, to put a science project together, or to see relationships in history. We also have the added bonus of knowing that they have learned and mastered that particular skill and not simply “experienced” it. The extra added bonus is that we have learned it afresh ourselves.

In fact, we find this home schooling so stimulating we actually get hooked on it. We would rather see the children learn than earn money. But then we see all activities as learning activities, earning money included. We have sought and found ways for the children to help us earn our income: assisting us who are self-employed by doing unpaid chores around the house for us, freeing us up for the paid work; directly helping us in running our home business; developing their own cottage industries, earning their own pocket money; several pairs of eyes and ears are better than one in locating bargains around town. The emphasis in all this is not on teaching as it is in the schools, but on learning. The children will learn virtually automatically when they can accompany and participate to even a small degree in some common everyday activity like pulling the weeds, shopping, changing a tyre, repairing the back fence, banking, posting…..the list, like the tasks to be done, is endless!

But children learn by helping you do the tasks. This is killing two birds with one stone: teaching the kids while doing all those chores and errands at the same time. They not only learn about the myriad mundane tasks that make up a day in the real world, but also come to see the place each task plays in the overall picture. In other words, they form a world-view based on the reality of your life in the home, the community and the market place rather than some Marxist/feminist academic’s spin-doctored theory about reality as he/she sees it from his/her ivory tower. Children learn local geography, economics, maths, time management, manual skills and more just by doing what you do during the day. It may take you longer to get through your list of chores, but because you are trying to look at these tasks through the eyes of your children, you will see these tasks in a totally new perspective. It will revitalise your own “boring” and “routine” day in a way you would never imagine to be possible.

We haven’t found home schooling to be expensive. I mean, even at “free” public schools the parents are continually shelling out for uniforms, books, fees, field trips, etc. “Free” public schools are also very time consuming and stressful for the concerned parent. There are all those delicate relationships with all those teachers and administrators, the other parents at PTA meetings, the tense debates at the school committee meetings, and the continual fund raising activities. And of course there is the transportation here, there and everywhere. Home schooling also takes time, but it is not time spent, it is time invested! And again, maybe as little as two hours a day is formal instruction, the rest is instruction “on the job” as you go about your necessary routine.

I believe the main reason that sympathetic friends do not themselves home school is because they do not want themselves or their children to be different. Sure, they want them to be better than average and distinctive in many ways, but not really different. But we do not want our children to be the same as all the others around, so that’s why we home school. We don’t want ours to be as cheeky, disrespectful, dishonest, disobedient and destructive as so many kids are today. We don’t want our children trained to be pleasure-seeking hedonists. We don’t want our kids to be so group-oriented that they cannot think, reason, evaluate, decide and then personally commit themselves to a course of action without the consent of their peers.

We are doing the best we can, I repeat, the best we know we can do, to maintain religious and civil freedoms in NZ by home schooling our children. The world-wide trend seems to be toward centralisation in government and ecumenicalism in religion. We aim to train up Biblically individualistic, independent thinkers, who are unafraid to shoulder responsibilities, but who are afraid of sin, who will, by God’s grace, evaluate all things by the principles set forth in the Bible. By so doing we will have produced children who will not be so easily pushed around by Big Brother, nor will the world be very successful at intimidating them to conform to its mould. We are not trying to produce anarchists. By training our children to be thoroughly Biblical in thought, word and deed, our children will be thereby effectively restrained from fulfilling their selfish desires and at the same time constrained to do that which is right.

We are doing the best thing possible to help the public, the private and the Christian schools…..providing them with some stiff competition. And I mean stiff. An average home with average access to resources with average parents with no special training are routinely producing children with top academic and social skills, while schools with masses of money and mountains of resources and highly trained and paid professional teachers, counsellors and administrators are having mixed results. Virtually any parent with only a half-measure of concern for excellence in their children’s education can easily raise up a family of superior academic and social accomplishments. Impossible, you say. Only natural, I retort. A home schooling parent is a private tutor. With only two hours of quality one-to-one tuition a day an average parent will certainly accomplish far more than all but the most exceptional teacher, contending with 30-40 mixed ability children in a classroom, can accomplish in a whole week….or longer. Almost every teacher will grant you that. And on top of that, who but you, the parent, is more concerned and motivated toward your children’s success? Who knows and understands your children better than you? You know when they are truly having an off day and when they are just having you on. Who else but you can ensure they get the morals, values and world outlook that you want them to have? I am sure you have heard the old saying, “If you want something done right, you’ve got to do it yourself.” This holds just as true in the realm of education as anywhere else.

It is a shame that the state educationalists are today perceived as the “professionals”, the “experts”, as if they alone held the keys for unlocking the child’s abilities to learn and for unlocking the mysteries of God’s creation that it may be understood. There is an exceedingly strong argument which can demonstrate that humanistically-trained state teachers do more to thwart children’s learning abilities than to unlock them. The fact that these same teachers are bound by law to teach from a secular or God-less perspective guarantees that they will not unlock the mysteries of God’s creation or ever properly understand them. I believe every parent must no longer allow herself to be intimidated, disparaged, patronised or put down by anyone within the state education system.

Instead of belittling her own abilities, I believe every parent must first of all seriously consider teaching her own children at home because in most cases she can do a superior job of it. If that is indeed totally out of the question, parents should then consider the Christian school, giving thanks and praise to God that there are so many dedicated Christian teachers and administrators with the vision for Christian schools.

The state schools are there as a last resort. That was partly why they were established — to provide and ensure a minimum of education to all NZ children. Yet  I know of no parents who consciously say they want the minimum education being offered by the state. Parents desire more, much more. Therefore they owe it to themselves to seriously consider the home schooling option.

From Keystone Magazine
March 1998 , Vol. IV No.1
P O Box 9064
Palmerston North
Phone: (06) 357-4399
Fax: (06) 357-4389
email: craig
@hef.org.nz