Grief is several layers deep

IMG_8915 (2)1. Missing loved one

  • being a couple
  • missing his laughter
  • all the little things
  • intimate conversation
  • at night
  • feeling only half alive
  • you smile but want to cry
  • Photo

2. Current situations like

  • celebrations – weddings, birthdays etc
  • when everyone around you at an event are a couple
  • The silence of not being able to hear Craig’s voice any more – except on some recordings I have
  • Grief guilt

3. Certain dates

  • the day Craig started to go numb – 8 July
  • the day of certain tests, CT scan, MRI – 28 July, diagnosis 4 August, etc
  • Charmagne’s wedding – 10 September
  • Today – 30 September
  • Funeral – 7 October
  • Birthdays etc

4. Future dates

  • having to give up the dreams Craig had for our future together
  • children still to get married
  • future grandchildren
  • Things that I know Craig would be involved in
  • 1st we had the Beneficiary Bill – trying to keep preschool from becoming compulsory for 3 & 4 years for beneficiaries.

  • 2nd the MoEs Problem Solving Survey

5. Wonderful memories

6. Eternity

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From the Smiths:

https://hef.org.nz/2011/craig-smith-26-january-1951-to-30-september-2011/

Updated 22 September 2014:  Two years on (Craig Smith’s Health) page 7 click here

*****

Needing help for your home schooling journey:

https://hef.org.nz/2011/needing-help-for-your-home-schooling-journey-2/

And

Here are a couple of links to get you started home schooling:

Information on getting startedhttps://hef.org.nz/getting-started-2/

and

Information on getting an exemptionhttps://hef.org.nz/exemptions/

This link is motivational: http://hef.org.nz/2012/home-schooling-what-is-it-all-about/

Exemption Form online: https://hef.org.nz/2012/home-schooling-exemption-form-now-online/

Coming Events: https://hef.org.nz/2013/some-coming-events-for-home-education-during-2013-2/

Beneficiaries: http://hef.org.nz/2013/where-to-for-beneficiary-families-now-that-the-social-security-benefit-categories-and-work-focus-amendment-bill-has-passed-its-third-reading/

The last of Craig Smith’s writings before he died 3 years ago

These were the last words that came from Craig’s pen (apart from his diary). Most of you have not read this exemption application. I think it is fitting to put this up on the blog part of this website on the eve of the 3rd anniversary of Craig’s death. It is also fitting because on Friday, 3 October our Problem Solving Surveys are due back at the MoE.

Smith 2010Photo taken March 2010 on the day of my Dad’s funeral 18 months before Craig died

We have home educated 5 children completely and are in the process of home educating two others. We now need to apply for an exemption for Grace.  Our first five children have been very successful in their careers:

Genevieve is a fully qualified Legal Executive. She worked for many years for a Lawyer as a Legal Executive before getting married. She worked her way to the top of Air Training Corps to Warrant Officer and was part of the Squadron’s champion marching team. She was a Manawatu Representative Softball player.

Zach is Marketing Director for a multi Million Dollar business in the USA. He has many responsibilities with a number of staff under him. Zach did a paper at Massey and got an A. Zach was also an officer in the Air Training Corps and part of the champion marching team.

Alanson is an Avionics Technician for the RNZAF. He got the trophy for academic excellence  at the end of boot camp. His graduating course had the highest point average for any Avionics course in recorded history. So Alanson handled his strenuous academic course with ease. He is now doing University studies while continuing to do Avionics for the RNZAF. He has also represented the RNZAF playing sports in England and Australia.

Charmagne Smith Dip.HND  can put her hand to anything and be successful. She is a brilliant seamstress, painter and paperhanger, plasterer and does floor and wall tiles too. She is also an expert furniture upholsterer , tiler, dressmaking pattern drafter, highland dancing teacher, International English Country Dance instructor http://ecdnz.weebly.com/, music teacher, language instructor including sign language. Charmagne has helped (was the Foreman for the job), build, clad, roof and floor a shed 35 x 14 meters, dropping 22 telephone poles into large holes for uprights, cementing them in, managing the project of building nine 700kg trusses (her pattern-drafting skills applied to boards 5.3 metres long as well as to lengths of cloth 53 centimetres long), driving a CAT 930 articulated dirt mover, arc welding, oxy welding, plasma cutting and a myriad of hand tools. She also does gourmet cooking for large crowds. http://www.photoblog.com/charmagne

Jeremiah has just passed all his exams and tests for getting into the Police Force.

Jedediah and Kaitlyn are still being home educated.

We plan to give Grace a similar education to our other children who have become very successful in the endeavours they have chosen. We have always had very good ERO reviews therefore we can confidently assure you that we will and can teach Grace as regularly and as well as a registered school.

This was all we were going to send in.

Craig then added:

18 July 2011 (birthday end of August)

To: Ministry of Education

Re: Application for Exemption from Enrolment and Attendance

To Whom It May Concern:

Section 3 of the Education Act gives New Zealand children the right to a free education in state-funded institutions. But Sections 20 and 25 prove that neither the children nor their parents are legally free to choose whether they’ll make use of this right but are instead legally compelled by the state to do two things: 1) enrol the children with a state-registered schooling institution and 2) attend that institution whenever it is open.

So while the Act declares children to have a right to an education, the Act only quarentees that they will be compelled to be enrolled at and attend a state-approved institution. The children are not guaranteed, compelled or even required by law to actually learn anything at all, to actually become educated or to receive an education. They are only required to do their time in one of these institutions.

We praise God that Section 21 of the Education Act exists to give parents and children an escape from this futile scenario.

We cannot imagine what our forefathers were thinking of in 1877 when they passed the original Education Act compelling wee six-year-olds to come out from under the influence and protection of their homes and their parents to instead be intensively instructed in a politically mandated curriculum by agents of the state. This was a radical intervention of the state. It forced a radical re-organising of the family life of virtually every household with children. This radical and legal construct also compelled the focus of each community to shift from the church to the school. As many New Zealand authors and professional educators have said, one of the primary objectives for establishing compulsory, secular schooling in New Zealand was to socially engineer the population into a politically determined profile.

The Bible outlines the legitimate powers and duties of the state. Guaranteeing the right to an education and compelling separation from parents and attendarnce at a state-registered institution are decidedly not among these powers and duties. That is, the Education Act was Biblically illegitimate from day one. This is both highly significant and relevant today because the Parliament that passed the Act and the subsequent Parliaments that continue to administer the Act have all affirmed loyalty to the British Crown as part of their foundational functions and duties. The British Monarchs, from Queen Victoria in 1877 through to the present Queen Elizabeth II have all made certain oaths required of the one who would legitimately wear the Crown. To the question presented to every Monarch since 1689 by the Archbishop, “Will you to the utmost of your power maintain the laws of God, the true profession of the gospel and the Protestant reformed religion?” the Monarchs have responded, “All this I promise to do.”

In addition, a Christian prayer has been read at the start of each parliamentary session in New Zealand since 1854, when it was introduced by the first vote ever taken by the House of Representatives. Here is the prayer in its current form, adopted by Resolution of the House in 1962: “Almighty God, humbly acknowledging our need for Thy guidance in all things, and laying aside all private and personal interests, we beseech Thee to grant that we may conduct the affairs of this House and of our country to the glory of Thy holy name, the maintenance of true religion and justice, the honour of the Queen, and the public welfare, peace, and tranquillity of New Zealand, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.”

The prayer, the oath of the Monarch, the affirmation of loyalty by each and every MP to the Monarch and therefore to the oath as well, all combine to show clearly that the collective duty of Parliament lies is the maintenance of the laws of God according to the Protestant reformed Christian religion which has a very well-developed Biblical understanding of sphere sovereignty and separation of powers. Consequently, the radical declarations and interventions of the Education Act are both Biblically and legally illegitimate.

We give these background notes to justify and explain my declaration to you, with no disrespect meant to your respective persons or offices, that we do not acknowledge the Ministry of Education to have any legitimate authority over the education and training of our children. We consequently object in the strongest terms possible to the Act’s requirement that we seek from your office an exemption from the compulsory enrolment and attendance provisions of the Act in order to educate our children ourselves and stay within the law. But because the Ministry of Education has never endeavoured to prevent parents from fulfilling their responsibility before God to educate their own children at home but has only insisted that they register their intention to do so and give a credible written explanation of what they intend to do, and because of the Bible’s injunction to do all things decently and in order and to obey lawful authorities where possible, we do hereby register with your office, via the attached exemption application, our intention to educate at home our permanent foster daughter, Grace Ariana Timmins, over whom we have legal guardianship.

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The local Lower Hutt MoE office wanted more information so Craig wrote this and we proof read it while we waited in hospital waiting rooms for tests:  CT scans, MRI, to talk with neurologists, oncologists,  etc.

28 July 2011

Thank you for your letter of 22 July informing us that your office is not inclined to issue an exemption to Grace Timmins from the compulsory schooling institution attendance laws.

You note that the Act requires you to be “satisfied” that Grace will be “taught at least as regularly and well as in a registered school.” I note that “satisfied” is a somewhat subjective term. There is certainly enough objective evidence in our previous letter to generate a subjective “satisfied.” There is more evidence in this letter.

I note that a “registered school” includes any school that exists in New Zealand, from Auckland Grammar through Hare Krishna and Muslim schools and alternative schools to places like Tamariki and Discovery 1 in Christchurch. These last two hardly fit any traditional profile of a school: regular attendance is mostly voluntary; students decide what they’d like to learn, when and whether by play or other means. Porirua College Principal Susanne Jungersen summarised this very approach as the new state-school philosophy of teaching when she said of her profession that they are “not the sage on the stage but the guide on the side.” (Wellington Dominion Post of Friday 9 May 2008).  This philosophy is known formally as Social Constructivism, and according to the first paragraph of the executive summary of a research paper commissioned by the Ministry of Education and on the Ministry of Education’s own website at http://www.educationcounts.govt.nz/publications/ict/5927, social constructivism is the reigning philosophy of the NZ state classroom. That is, teachers no longer teach: they act as facilitators. They do not accept that there is propositional truth or an agreed-upon body of knowledge that must be passed along from one generation to the next, but they instead try to function on the axiom that bodies of knowledge and reality itself are social constructs rather than objective, historical, stand-alone entities that are available for anyone to examine and review. Consequently, a popular classroom approach is to get the children, as a group (socially) to construct their own bodies of knowledge and subjects which are to them (socially) worth studying.

We utterly reject this philosophy of education and can state categorically that we will not be teaching “as well as” that. Never. Neither will we endeavour to teach “as regularly as” Discovery 1 or Tamariki.

As we said in our earlier letter, “The prayer, the oath of the Monarch, the affirmation of loyalty by each and every MP to the Monarch and therefore to the oath as well, all combine to show clearly that the collective duty of Parliament lies is the maintenance of the laws of God according to the Protestant reformed Christian religion which has a very well-developed Biblical understanding of sphere sovereignty and separation of powers.” That is, parents, not the agents of the state (such as members of the Ministry of Education), have the responsibility to educate their children. Let us describe our understanding of our Biblical duty in this area. This is what we do. This is what the New Zealand Parliament should be promoting and encouraging, without the radical interventions of compulsory attendance at state schooling institutions.

God has revealed to us, His creatures, all the foundational truths, axioms and presuppositions we need to know about Him, about ourselves, the universe we live in and what He requires of us. He has made this revelation in two places. First, in a general sense, He is revealed in the universe He has created. Second, and more importantly, He is very specifically revealed in the Bible.  It is obvious, therefore, that God requires us to learn how to read and to comprehend what He intended to convey in His written word, not what we think it means. This requires a mastery of the skill of reading as well as a solid understanding of grammar, logic and the rules of hermeneutics. This is a far cry from what the current New Zealand curriculum suggests on page 18: “students are primarily making meaning of ideas or information they receive (Listening, Reading, and Viewing).”

Very early on in the Bible, Genesis 1:28, God delivers to us the overall task: “Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth and subdue it; and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the air and over every living thing that moves upon the earth.” All the hard sciences are required to carry out these tasks: animal and plant biology, chemistry, physics, mathematics, medicine, logistics, economics. These, then, are also essential ingredients to a proper education.

In Matthew 28:19-20, the Lord Jesus Christ adds to and expands upon this assignment: “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you.” Here again a large array of essential academic disciplines are needed: languages; teaching, discipling, tutoring and mentoring; communication skills of writing and speaking; Law, justice. These too are essential areas of academic training.

Furthermore, II Corinthians 5:18-20 says, “All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to Himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation; that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to Himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation. So we are ambassadors for Christ, God making His appeal through us.” Again, look at all the skills required to fulfil this duty: communication skills and interpersonal relationship skills to handle both the message and the ministry of reconciliation between sinful people and an angry God. This is a message most people simply do not want to hear, yet we are assigned not only to deliver the message, but also to effect the reconciliation. Please note, this is not the same as conflict resolution, which is little more than a game of horse swapping. This is effecting true reconciliation, so one must dig deep and deal with core personality issues and emotions. And since we are to be as ambassadors, we must do all things to the highest standard of excellence, including our manners, our speech, our dress, our deportment, the accuracy and earnestness of the message.

Lest anyone be tempted to say that state schools can inculcate these skills and bodies of knowledge just as well, may I point out that these academic disciplines are all aimed at a particular goal: to equip us to serve the Lord Jesus Christ. He says in Psalm 111:10 that “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” One may have a head full of facts and a number of skills under one’s belt. But if one does not fear the Lord, he or she does not have the wisdom properly to use those skills or those bodies of knowledge. The secular clause of the Education Act ensures that the beginning point of wisdom – the fear of the Lord – will not characterise the teaching (or facilitating) of a state school. Consequently state school methodologies and curriculum subjects and educational philosophies are all antithetical to what we are required to do in the realm of educating our children. So while the Education Act may say we must teach “as well as in a registered school,” we will not be at all similar to it. In addition, we have little use for a registered school’s “regularity,” which is something like 9 to 3, five days a week, whereas we see education as a 24/7/365 occupation.

The 4th of the Ten Commandments tell us, “Six days you shall labour and do all your work. But the seventh is a Sabbath to the Lord your God. In it you shall do no work.” Which doesn’t mean we don’t learn. We congregate with others to worship the Lord. This includes listening to the liturgy of the Church and the Word of God preached. The object here is to understand its personal and social relevance and to make personal application. There is much singing and also much socialising.

We work according to priorities. Number one priority is our individual and also corporate walk with the Lord Jesus Christ (This includes personal reading, comprehension and application of the Scriptures, possibly note-taking or journaling, prayer and probably Scripture memory. This may also include other devotional, doctrinal or theological reading and discussions.) Number two is interpersonal relationships within the family. (Looking to see how we may help one another do chores or fulfil duties and meet deadlines is a good way to make sure no one is holding any grudges or bitterness.) Third is developing Christian character qualities. (Biographies and doing things for others outside the family really help here.) Fourth is developing a positive, energetic work ethic. (There is always plenty of work to do around the home, especially when all 7 of us are home most of the time and the family income is generated from this place, and three vehicles are needed for the four drivers and three non-drivers.) Fifth is the rest of the academic disciplines not covered in the foregoing. Each day we start with our number one priority, for it is always number one. If we actually do not get down to hitting the fifth priority, the other academic disciplines, in any one day well, that is most unfortunate. Next day we do not start where we left off. We start, as usual, at our Number one priority, our walk with the Lord, and we work our way down the list as usual.

The skills the children must master (Reading, Writing and Arithmetic) we find it takes a fair bit of one-to-one tuition. All the other subjects can be done with the entire age-range by simply reading and discussing good books together, expecting more from the older ones and less from the younger ones.

This has been our lifestyle for quite a few years now. Grace has already been absorbed into this routine since she was able to comprehend what was going on and respond cognitively…which she did via New Zealand Sign Language taught to her by our older daughter Charmagne. At this point I’d like to quote fellow home educator Craig Mortimer from Northland. He said, “We are supposed to teach as regularly and well as in a registered school. If that’s all I do, I’ll consider myself a failure.” Amen, brother. Amen!

Thank you for this opportunity to explain what we are about. We look forward to receiving an exemption certificate for Grace soon.

Craig & Barbara Smith

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This exemption application was declined. We received the letter from the MoE the week before Craig died.

We were told to appeal to the Secretary of Education. Craig always advised parents not to go this way.

So I put in a completely new application based on our previous one for Kaitlyn, We received Kaitlyn’s exemption in less than 10 days with no questions asked. So I thought I would have no problems with Grace’s application based on Kaitlyns.

As you will see in the next link I had to send back a book to the MoE  when they asked for more information – almost a brand new exemption. So it felt like to me a grieving wife that I had put in 3 exemptions applications for Grace. I thoroughly regret giving all the information to the MoE for Grace’s exemption instead of fighting it. But I put that application into the MoE in the first couple of weeks after Craig died as Grace had already been 6 for some time and I had no intention of sending her to school. I didn’t have the reserves in me to do it after the 7 week battle we had with Craig’s health and then the grieving after his death.

Grace’s second exemption application

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Links in relation to the survey due back into the MoE October 3:
Home Education Foundation letter which covers exemption form, beneficiaries, International home educators and Keystone.

– MoE/ERO issues

– Changes in the MoE

– MoE discussions introduction to the Red Tape Cluster Buster meetings

– Preparation for the MoE discussions with Red Tape Cluster Buster meetings and relevant for the Problem Scoping Survey
– Discussions home educators had online at Clutter buster group or (for ease of reading as not everyone can get onto the Google docs) here…https://hef.org.nz/coming-events-archives-2012/red-tape-cluster-buster/ (Also a lot of very good information to aid you in filling out the Problem Scoping Survey)

– Record of Progress and Achievement (an example of the new National MoE office staff understanding home educators)

– Truancy and the Home Schooler/Home Educator (another success with the National Office in that Megan showed us alternatives)

– Scoping Meeting 15 July 2014 – Getting to know you

– 2nd Meeting 28 July 2014 – Red Tape Cluster Buster Meeting

– MoE scoping Home Educators – email

Feedback Form (Problem Scoping Survey) on MoE website

Email to the MoE about the Scoping Survey from a Home Educator

Problem Scoping Survey: ideas and deadline

MoE’s reply to Yumiko’s email about the Scoping Survey

MoE Problem Scoping Survey: please make it known and fill it out

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Please share/forward this link with other home educators.

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From the Smiths:

https://hef.org.nz/2011/craig-smith-26-january-1951-to-30-september-2011/

Updated 22 September 2014:  Two years on (Craig Smith’s Health) page 7 click here

*****

Needing help for your home schooling journey:

https://hef.org.nz/2011/needing-help-for-your-home-schooling-journey-2/

And

Here are a couple of links to get you started home schooling:

Information on getting startedhttps://hef.org.nz/getting-started-2/

and

Information on getting an exemptionhttps://hef.org.nz/exemptions/

This link is motivational: http://hef.org.nz/2012/home-schooling-what-is-it-all-about/

Exemption Form online: https://hef.org.nz/2012/home-schooling-exemption-form-now-online/

Coming Events: https://hef.org.nz/2013/some-coming-events-for-home-education-during-2013-2/

Beneficiaries: http://hef.org.nz/2013/where-to-for-beneficiary-families-now-that-the-social-security-benefit-categories-and-work-focus-amendment-bill-has-passed-its-third-reading/

 

 

MoE’s reply to Yumiko’s email about the Scoping Survey

Response to:  Email to the MoE about the Scoping Survey from a Home Educator

This reponse will be put up on the MoE website on Monday

Dear Dr Yumiko,

Thank you for your email.

This feedback process is intended as an informal scoping exercise not as formal research and as such doesn’t cover off the elements outlined in your email. In saying that, the points that you have raised in your email are all really valid.

In terms of the purpose of this exercise, we have met with some home schooling parents and two home schooling organisations e.g. (HEF and NCHENZ) over the past year to establish and/or strengthen relationships with the home schooling sector.  Some parents and home schooling organisations as well as organisations such as Te Kura and the Education Review Office and Ministry staff have told us that there are many things they like about the home schooling system in New Zealand. In addition there are some things  regarding home schooling that they would like changed.  There are up to 6,000 young people being home schooled at any one time.  We want to provide all parents and organisations involved in the home schooling sector with the opportunity to let the Ministry know what is working well and if there is anything that could be changed or improved? We have been welcoming all feedback.

After 3 October 2014, we will be collating all the feedback from the home schooling sector and organisations involved in home schooling.  We will summarise what is working well and anything that people would like to see changed. A copy of all the feedback and the summary of this collated feedback will be provided to the home schooling sector by the end of November 2014.  We will seek feedback from the sector on this document to ensure we have accurately captured what is working well and what people would like to see changed.  The feedback we receive from the home schooling sector will inform us of the next steps.  Any proposed next steps will be provided to the home schooling sector for comment also by the end of November 2014.

We have endeavoured to contact as many home school parents as possible and have sent emails to the 2530 home educators email addresses that we have on our database (that were given to us on application for home schooling) which covers approximately 4980 home school students with less than 50 email ‘bounce backs’. We are aware that we have not been able to contact all home school parents .  We have placed the survey on our website in an attempt to provide the information to as many people as possible: http://www.minedu.govt.nz/Parents/AllAges/EducationInNZ/Homeschooling.aspx

Regarding your query re: the term “successes”, this means to us ‘what’s working well for home schoolers’.  We think it is important for the Ministry to understand what of the current home schooling system is working well for people who choose this form of education for their children.

To help assist people with providing feedback, we have created a feedback sheet. The feedback sheet is intended as a guide; people can submit their feedback in any form they like either by emailing us or writing to us. The feedback received is confidential to the Ministry of Education, we won’t be identifying individual responses or any identifying personal information in any of the reporting back that we do.

Thank you for taking time to raise these points with us. We greatly appreciate your feedback and we will also  add this information to our website for other home educators to see as well.

Please direct all other enquiries to home.schooling@minedu.govt.nz.

Kind Regards,

Updated link: Problem Scoping Survey: ideas and deadline

Remember when the MoE talks about “success” in this case they are talking about the success and failure of the interactions between the MoE and home educators. NOT the successes and failures of our home education in our homes.

Although don’t be afraid to tell them of your successes just don’t tell them of your failures. We all feel that we could be doing better and have failed in some areas. After home educating for 28 years (with an exemption) and realising how fast the time goes by and how little can be achieved in a day and yet our children learn and those of my children who have completed their education at home are now thriving in their chosen fields. Even school teachers must see many or their failures in the class. We only have a fraction of the children yet we all have the same amount of time. Actually that statement is incorrect as we have 24 hours while teachers only have from 9:00am to 3:00pm. Again that is incorrect as schools like to encroach on family time and give home work as well. What I am saying we are not perfect. So please don’t mention what you feel is failure in your home education as it is something you can be dealing with in the future and does not need to be brought to the attention of the MoE.

On the other hand do mention your successes – how you home educate without a timetable, without using a topic plan, without set curriculum, without rigid guidelines, without goal planning if that is how you home educate. Talk about the successes your children have in learning to read and write (sometimes even on their own) and especially without qualified teachers.

Tell them what is working in your home, whether you use a timetable, set curriculum, topic plan for subjects, rigid guidelines and goal planning or whether your family are natural learners/radical unschoolers or somewhere in between.

It is not like an ERO review on the home education in our own homes. It is like an ERO review on the systems/processes that the MoE use with home educators. Simply what works, what doesn’t and how can it be improved.

The evidence shows overwhelmingly that these children (home schooled children) perform extremely well, above average, when they re-enter formal education. That appears to be across the board, whether they sat at home and had formal lessons…or whether they were up-a-tree hippies who had no formal learning pattern. On any measure you like, socially or academically, they will do better.” — Jeff Richardson, Monash University, Melbourne https://hef.org.nz/getting-started-2/expert-opinion/

RONALD MEIGHAN, University of Nottingham School of Education, 1996 wanted to write an essay against home education. After he had done his research he wrote: Home-Based Education Not “Does It Work?” but “Why Does It Work So Well?

Do check out this link with a bunch of ideas to stimulate your thinking for filling out the scoping survey: Problem Scoping Survey: ideas and deadline

Addresses for sending the Scoping Survey back:

email: Home.Schooling@minedu.govt.nz

snail mail: Lucy Ambrose, 45-47 Pipitea St, Wellington

phone: 04 4 463 8946 | Ext 48946

or look for the addresses in Jim Greening’ letter.

Links:
Home Education Foundation letter which covers exemption form, beneficiaries, International home educators and Keystone.

– MoE/ERO issues

– Changes in the MoE

– MoE discussions introduction to the Red Tape Cluster Buster meetings

– Preparation for the MoE discussions with Red Tape Cluster Buster meetings and relevant for the Problem Scoping Survey
– Discussions home educators had online at Clutter buster group or (for ease of reading as not everyone can get onto the Google docs) here…https://hef.org.nz/coming-events-archives-2012/red-tape-cluster-buster/ (Also a lot of very good information to aid you in filling out the Problem Scoping Survey)

– Record of Progress and Achievement (an example of the new National MoE office staff understanding home educators)

– Truancy and the Home Schooler/Home Educator (another success with the National Office in that Megan showed us alternatives)

– Scoping Meeting 15 July 2014 – Getting to know you

– 2nd Meeting 28 July 2014 – Red Tape Cluster Buster Meeting

– MoE scoping Home Educators – email

Feedback Form (Problem Scoping Survey) on MoE website

Email to the MoE about the Scoping Survey from a Home Educator

Problem Scoping Survey: ideas and deadline

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Please share/forward this link with other home educators.

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From the Smiths:

https://hef.org.nz/2011/craig-smith-26-january-1951-to-30-september-2011/

Updated 22 September 2014:  Two years on (Craig Smith’s Health) page 7 click here

*****

Needing help for your home schooling journey:

https://hef.org.nz/2011/needing-help-for-your-home-schooling-journey-2/

And

Here are a couple of links to get you started home schooling:

Information on getting startedhttps://hef.org.nz/getting-started-2/

and

Information on getting an exemptionhttps://hef.org.nz/exemptions/

This link is motivational: http://hef.org.nz/2012/home-schooling-what-is-it-all-about/

Exemption Form online: https://hef.org.nz/2012/home-schooling-exemption-form-now-online/

Coming Events: https://hef.org.nz/2013/some-coming-events-for-home-education-during-2013-2/

Beneficiaries: http://hef.org.nz/2013/where-to-for-beneficiary-families-now-that-the-social-security-benefit-categories-and-work-focus-amendment-bill-has-passed-its-third-reading/

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Problem Scoping Survey: ideas and deadline

The Problem Scoping Survey is due back 3 October (revised date).

The feedback form is intended as a guide; feedback can be provided in any form via home.schooling@minedu.govt.nz.

For any queries please email home.schooling@minedu.govt.nz or phone 04 463 8946.

Feedback Letter 
Feedback Form

Click on this link to go to the MoE website:  http://www.minedu.govt.nz/Parents/AllAges/EducationInNZ/Homeschooling.aspx

I have been trying to write this post for a couple of days now. Then Dr. Yumiko Olliver-Gray sent me her email to the MoE. Yumiko’s email explained very clearly what a lot of people have been thinking. Comments I have been getting about Yumiko’s email are all similar “Thanks for this, Barbara. Dr. Oliver-Gray expressed the thoughts I had had very eloquently. Look forward to MoE’s reply.” “I have been reluctant to fill out the form for many of the reasons stated.” “I felt anything that I say could be used against me so I am reluctant to say anything.” “I have tried to fill the form out more than once but haven’t known where to start. I couldn’t figure out why.  This explains why!”

I believe that it has been a progression for us as well as for the new MoE staff.

1. The Red Tape Cluster Buster team started contacting us about the getting rid of the non essentials in the forms and that got extended to anything in the forms and the processes the MoE use.

2. Then the new staff in the National Office contacted me, NCHENZ and several Support Groups to have “Getting to know you meetings”

The next thing we know Meredith and I get this email from the National Office asking us to get the word out about the Problem Scoping Survey that they were sending out that day either by email or snail mail.

It didn’t get sent out that day, nor for several days – technical problems. Not everyone got it. And they decided not to send the snail mail version of it.

It has been so confusing for most people. The MoE are looking at every area of the MoE not just home educators. I have written a few emails recently to them and have seen positive results. I am expecting to see some good results from the Red Tape Cluster Buster meetings, the getting to know you meetings and these surveys. It will be interesting to see how they answer this email from Yumiko tomorrow.

A few days ago I wrote this post to help everyone see the benefit of filling out the Survey.  If you have not read this post yet then please do. https://hef.org.nz/2014/feedback-form-problem-scoping-survey-on-moe-website/.

Background information included in link above

– New Staff in the National MoE Office since 1 July

– Correspondence with the National Office of the MoE in April and more recently

– Getting to Know you Meetings

– Cluster Buster Meetings

Some Concerns people have (with answers from my perspective) included in link above. Some of the concerns include (check this link for my answers):

  • “I have received an email from the MoE and I find it a bit strange. It doesn’t say how the information will be used.”
  • “I think its still hard to have a conversation with them when we are speaking different languages.”
  • From Jim Greening’s letter: “The MoE is seeking to determine any areas where improvements can be made to home schooling within NZ to ensure the success of those young people involved in homeschooling.”…implies that young people involved in home educating are not currently ‘successful’.”
  •  The whole focus on ‘success’ raises quite a few flags – what on earth do they mean by ‘success’? (with an answer from the MoE)
  • “The actual form is not user friendly or clear.  I am not even sure where to start with it.” (with an answer from the MoE)

Here are some ideas to write about – some from the link above and some extra ones – plus you probably have others. This list is just to stimulate your thinking about the things that you can write about in the scoping survey. Many people have said that they got their exemptions with no problems – that is fantastic. The MoE wants to hear about what is working well, what is not working and how they can improve. So there is something for everyone to write about. You can fill out the survey, send in an email or snail mail letter. You can sign it or send it in anonymously.

UPDATE:The most important is that we don’t need an ‘application’ at all.  Just a notification that we intend to homeschool.  If our child goes to school, we don’t have to ‘apply’.  I think a notification, perhaps with the twice yearly statutory declaration, is all that is needed.  We sign that we have fulfilled our legal obligation to educate our child/ren and this is a binding legal document.  (If the MoE wont consider “no application” then just one application per family rather than per child.  Once approved, do we really need to do an application for each child?)

1. Justified Absence – it would be wonderful if a lot of home educators include this in their Scoping Surveys asking for “Justified Absence” during the exemption application process to be a part of the MoE policy. Please see this post that I wrote up on Truancy after meeting with the Red Tape Cluster Buster Team.   https://hef.org.nz/getting-started-2/truancy-and-the-home-schoolerhome-educator/

2. This statement could be mentioned in several scoping surveys: “Principal notified of your intention to homeschool (in the case of a child currently enrolled in a school). The Principal of your child’s current school (or most recently attended school) will be asked to comment on the suitability or otherwise of home education as an option for your child.” For those of you who this has been an issue (or those who could see issues about this in the future) it would be wonderful if you could outline the issues in the scoping survey. Jim knows that this statement needs to be changed and they are listening to us on this. So it is important that we give them some case studies of how this has been detrimental to many families during the application process.

Some MoE offices will not process exemption applications during holidays because they cannot contact the Principal. This is totally unreasonable as a lot of parents want to pull their children from school at the end of a term and not send them back to school at the beginning of a new term.  Anyway MoE should not be contacting the Principals about the suitability of parents to home educate their own children. And we are trusting after this process with the Red Tape Cluster Buster team that “Justified Absence” will be applied for the exemption application process.

3. “regular” and “well” Jim wants to define these two words we don’t want to see these words defined any more than they already are in the exemption form package. Those words are in the law anything else is policy.

4. Beneficiaries being told by some WINZ offices that they cannot home school and be on the benefit.
5. Exemption form on line-to be filled out on line, along with that, the ability to track online the progress of the exemption form.
6. Use of the Exemption Application when it comes to different philosophies. At the moment the exemption form application seems to be set up for one philosophy which lines up with how children are taught in school. Home education is quite different and the National Office seems to be understanding this. We need to write about this more in the Problem Scoping Survey so that it is clearer in the application form.
7. Special needs: The National Office, especially the Red Tape Cluster Buster team, wants to hear from those with Special needs children. What are all the things that you have found helpful for your special needs children? What struggles have you had to find out what is available for your special needs home educated children? I have heard of some families who have had struggles for many years in these areas and have finally found the help they needed. Please share this information in the Problem Solving Survey so that others don’t have to go through your struggles. Megan is keen to get this information onto the Exemption Application forms.
Parents should not have to have their special needs child assessed to get an exemption. It can be voluntary especially if they want to use any special education services offered for special needs children, but not compulsory.
8. ECE: writing information about whether our children had been in an ECE during the last 6 months (when our children are turning 6 or being pulled out of school) is not a requirement of the current legislation and does not demonstrate to the MoE that we have the ability to “teach our child as regularly and as well as a registered school”. Just because they are asking this of all children entering school (Jim’s letter to me) does not mean that they need to ask this of children being home educated.
9. The need to see home education friendly staff in the MoE especially in the local offices where the exemption applications are approved. We do not want to see anyone in the local MoE offices who “do not like home schooling and do not think anyone should be able to do it”
Same with the ERO. The ERO come into our home and are making a judgment on our family and lifestyle. It is a very nervous time for home educators. We need reviewers who thoroughly understand all the different styles of home education – perhaps just a few reviewers throughout New Zealand.
10. Another idea is to ask for a “Family Exemption Application” to be online. We use our number to access it. We have our overall philosophy up there. Then we just add to that the particulars for each child.
11. The Success of home educators: I don’t know of any home educators on the dole or who have been on the dole. This must say a lot about the home education environment in New Zealand and the good work that parents are doing with their children whether they are using a very academic programme or they are using the Natural Learning/unschooling approach. Here is a New Zealand survey answered by those who have finished being home educated: Beyond homeschooling in New Zealand
12. The need for the local MoE offices to listen to us so that we can write up our exemptions the way we want to home educate our children and NOT write in the exemption form what we think the MoE wants to hear.
13. For the MoE to understand that home education is a lifestyle that is 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and 365 days of the year = very regular, no days off. This has been obvious from those families who have tried to have a “no learning day”.
14. Some home educators might like to mention the UN conventions that Parents have a right to choose the kind of education their children will receive. The right is supported by multiple human rights instruments under international law. New Zealand is a signatory to these three conventions and they show that this human right is universally recognised in all places.

– Universal Declaration of Human Rights (1948) Article 26 (3) – “Parents have a prior right to choose the kind of education that shall be given to their children.”
– International Covenant on Economic, Social and Cultural Rights (1976) Article 10 (1) and 13 (3)3 “The States Parties to the present Covenant undertake to have respect for the liberty of parents and, when applicable, legal guardians to choose for their children schools, other than those established by the public authorities, which conform to such minimum educational standards as may be laid down or approved by the State and to ensure the religious and moral education of their children in conformity with their own convictions.”
– International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights (1976) Article 18 (4)4 – “The States Parties to the present Covenant undertake to have respect for the liberty of parents and, when applicable, legal guardians to ensure the religious and moral education of their children in conformity with their own convictions.”

and: https://hef.org.nz/2012/berlin-declaration/

15. “as well as” does not mean the “the same as”
as regular as” is more regular than school as it is all the time.
16. Exemption form is “School” focused. Most home educators do not follow a timetable – they are more goal Orientated and/or focused on natural learning and/or the teachable moment.
17. “In our heads” has been an acceptable way to keep a “record of progress and achievement” for over 25 years. Now we are asked to keep records on the exemption form – weekly, termly, annually. ERO reviews in the past were about talking to the parents, not the children, to see how the parent is teaching the child . It was all about the ERO finding out what was in the parents heads – not about written reports. There is plenty of time to come up with a report for the “ERO, further education or training” at the time of these events. Please see this post that I wrote after the Getting to Know you meeting with Jim, Sonya and Lucy: https://hef.org.nz/2014/record-of-progress-and-achievement/
18. Topic plan is of benefit for the MoE not the parent. Education happens at home in a completely different way than it does at school. Some home educators may use a topic plan, most don’t. So it is a complete waste of time to asses whether someone can “teach as well as”.
19. Does the statutory declaration need to be signed by a JP or other authorised person. Heaps of other forms of more importance do not need to be witnessed like this.
20. Should it be taking 4-6 weeks for exemptions to be approved? In the past we often heard back in 4-6 days.
21. For the MoE and ERO to realise that sometimes (which happens way too often) people complain about a family and their home education programme because they are just plain against home schooling. They don’t understand it and are critical without finding out about it. Other times a ex spouse or ex partner (who were supportive of home education) will make trouble by asking for a review to try to hurt the one still home educating.
22. There needs to be clarity over the words that the MoE sends to the family after a failed ERO review– “if the parents indicate they accept the finding etc…” some home educators have difficulty in signing the form if they cannot accept the findings.
Observations: Two recent New Zealand studies that might be of interest are: 
and part of the

These are just ideas to stimulate your thinking – come up with your own ideas, reword these ones, copy them if they are how you think. Share your experience good or bad. Share how you think the MoE can improve. The MoE has given us a blank cheque on letting them know how we feel about the forms and processes of the MoE to do with home educators.

The National Office of the MoE want to hear from you in any form you feel comfortable with.

Remember this is NEW staff. They want to know:

1. What is not working
2. What is working
3. How things can be improved
4. They want to put right anything that they still can – I have seen this happening personally over the last couple of months where I have taken stuff to the New National MoE Office staff and they have personally seen to fixing the problems of the old guard.
5. Keeping them to the law which is all about “schooling” not education or learning.

It does not have to be on the form. You can snail mail it into them with no return address.

Many people have been disappointed that they have not been able to be a part of the Red Tape Cluster Buster meetings. Well, this is your chance to have a say. People are talking with the National Office of the MoE – we don’t know what they are saying, so be sure to make your concerns, successes and ideas for the future known to the National Office of the MoE.

At the “getting to know you meeting” Jim, Sonya and Lucy assured us that they want home educators working with them on any changes to the forms and processes that the MoE use with and for home educators –  a group of home educators who can work with the MoE – a sector group to look at all aspects of home education.

Links:
Home Education Foundation letter which covers exemption form, beneficiaries, International home educators and Keystone.

– MoE/ERO issues

– Changes in the MoE

– MoE discussions introduction to the Red Tape Cluster Buster meetings

– Preparation for the MoE discussions with Red Tape Cluster Buster meetings and relevant for the Problem Scoping Survey
– Discussions home educators had online at Clutter buster group or (for ease of reading as not everyone can get onto the Google docs) here…https://hef.org.nz/coming-events-archives-2012/red-tape-cluster-buster/ (Also a lot of very good information to aid you in filling out the Problem Scoping Survey)

– Record of Progress and Achievement (an example of the new National MoE office staff understanding home educators)

– Truancy and the Home Schooler/Home Educator (another success with the National Office in that Megan showed us alternatives)

– Scoping Meeting 15 July 2014 – Getting to know you

– 2nd Meeting 28 July 2014 – Red Tape Cluster Buster Meeting

– MoE scoping Home Educators – email

Feedback Form (Problem Scoping Survey) on MoE website

Email to the MoE about the Scoping Survey from a Home Educator

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Please share/forward this link with other home educators.

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From the Smiths:

https://hef.org.nz/2011/craig-smith-26-january-1951-to-30-september-2011/

Updated 22 September 2014:  Two years on (Craig Smith’s Health) page 7 click here

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Needing help for your home schooling journey:

https://hef.org.nz/2011/needing-help-for-your-home-schooling-journey-2/

And

Here are a couple of links to get you started home schooling:

Information on getting startedhttps://hef.org.nz/getting-started-2/

and

Information on getting an exemptionhttps://hef.org.nz/exemptions/

This link is motivational: http://hef.org.nz/2012/home-schooling-what-is-it-all-about/

Exemption Form online: https://hef.org.nz/2012/home-schooling-exemption-form-now-online/

Coming Events: https://hef.org.nz/2013/some-coming-events-for-home-education-during-2013-2/

Beneficiaries: http://hef.org.nz/2013/where-to-for-beneficiary-families-now-that-the-social-security-benefit-categories-and-work-focus-amendment-bill-has-passed-its-third-reading/

 

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Email to the MoE about the Scoping Survey from a Home Educator

The MoE have told Dr. Yumiko Olliver-Gray that they will be replying to this email tomorrow.

To: home.schooling@minedu.govt.nz

Hi there
I am a homeschooling parent in the Kapiti area and I would be happy to share feedback with you on what elements of homeschooling work well or could be enhanced.
However, as homeschooler, researcher and former government employee, I have some concerns about the way in which this feedback is being gathered and the information that is provided with it. I believe that the Ministry of Education (MoE) is seeking this feedback/information with the best intent, but without a robust process in place, the data may not be as useful as intended, and the information (and the MoE) may be open to criticism as a consequence.
While this may not be intended to be a ‘major survey’ (in which case this should be clearly indicated), there are several areas that should be considered both in relation to the information provided about the ‘feedback’ and what will be done with it:
1. Background information
While there is a cover letter with the ‘feedback form’ – it does not advise the recipients:
 a) why this feedback is being asked for (what is the rationale for it? who prompted it? Is it requested by the Minister or is it less formal? is it purely ‘scoping’ for more detailed research?) – this also shapes the information respondents will provide.
 b) what will be done with this information (it is advised that it will be gathered into a report, but who is the report for? What is the report going to do? who is collating the information and analysing it?)
c) Who has this letter gone to? (many in my area did not personally receive a letter or email; this raises questions as to whether only ‘selected’ respondents were initially approached and if so why?)
2. Confidentiality and ethics.
As a minimum, government agencies, when gathering data, need to be very clear about the following:
a. The confidentiality associated with the information – can it be linked to individuals (and will it be)? In relation to this, a clear ‘clause’ about the maintenance of confidentiality/privacy should be included in the covering letter
b. Who will see the ‘raw data’?
c. What will happen to the information once it has been processed? (will it be destroyed, kept for future reference or used to inform other reports, policy etc?)
d. Other ethical points for consideration include the right to retract or withdraw information provided and the right to anonymity if desired.
3. Interpreting the information
How will the information be collated and understood when it comes back – here I have two major concerns:
a) while it has been indicated that the feedback form doesn’t need to be adhered to and feedback in any other form is fine, what needs to be clearly defined is  what the MoE wants to know. What is meant by ‘success’? What is meant by ‘what’s working’ (for whom? between whom?).
The information you may receive could be hugely varied, making it impossible to draw conclusions from (although this in itself could be significant); it would also make the time and effort (from both the MoE and homeschooling respondents) somewhat obsolete.
b) There a many variables that impact homeschooling – this ranges from choice of curriculum or  philosophy, number of children being homeschooled, length of time homeschooling, location, support networks etc. As none of these variables are included in the feedback, interpreting the information you receive could be very superficial and worse, incorrect in how it is represented.
These points suggest a need for greater understanding of the diversity within homeschooling in NZ (which may be the point of acquiring the feedback).
It is likely that I am not alone in voicing these concerns to the MoE. As a community, we are critical thinkers who question intent when it is not clearly articulated. This can be damaging to building an on-going relationship between the MoE and the homeschooling community.
As homeschoolers, our time and energy is precious and needs to be concentrated into our children; hence clarity and transparency are important. While the process and purpose of gathering this information may have less importance for the MoE, it is significant to how and whether homeschoolers will respond to it.
I would be grateful if you could provide me with responses to some of the queries outlined above as this will assist me with providing you with relevant feedback – which, as I indicated at the outset, I am happy to do.
I look forward to your reply
Dr. Yumiko Olliver-Gray
The MoE have told Dr. Yumiko Olliver-Gray that they will be replying to this email tomorrow.
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Home Education Foundation link on the Scoping Survey:
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Please share/forward this link with other home educators.

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From the Smiths:

https://hef.org.nz/2011/craig-smith-26-january-1951-to-30-september-2011/

Updated 22 September 2014:  Two years on (Craig Smith’s Health) page 7 click here

*****

Needing help for your home schooling journey:

https://hef.org.nz/2011/needing-help-for-your-home-schooling-journey-2/

And

Here are a couple of links to get you started home schooling:

Information on getting startedhttps://hef.org.nz/getting-started-2/

and

Information on getting an exemptionhttps://hef.org.nz/exemptions/

This link is motivational: http://hef.org.nz/2012/home-schooling-what-is-it-all-about/

Exemption Form online: https://hef.org.nz/2012/home-schooling-exemption-form-now-online/

Coming Events: https://hef.org.nz/2013/some-coming-events-for-home-education-during-2013-2/

Beneficiaries: http://hef.org.nz/2013/where-to-for-beneficiary-families-now-that-the-social-security-benefit-categories-and-work-focus-amendment-bill-has-passed-its-third-reading/

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